Navigating a personal life under constant public scrutiny is a challenge many Bollywood actors face, and Kartik Aaryan is no exception. In a recent conversation with Filmfare, he addressed the various narratives around his romantic life, offering a candid perspective on loyalty and the reality of modern dating in the film industry.
Kartik remains firm about maintaining boundaries regarding his private affairs. He mentioned that the transition from a private citizen to a public figure often results in a loss of context regarding one’s personal history. He said, “I never talk about my relationships. There will always be countless stories about every actor and their personal life. When you’re in the industry, everything tends to get blown out of proportion. Even if you talk about my relationships, like my college romances, people are quick to label or count them. And sometimes things are just not true.”
Addressing the playboy label that is frequently used in media headlines, Kartik is quick to dismiss the characterization. He clarifies, “I never became a playboy.” He also firmly denied rumours regarding his commitment to his partners, saying, “I have always been faithful. Always. I’ll tell you what happens, in the media, there’s always a perspective. Relationship timelines, rumours, media narratives… that’s the context I’m coming from. Overlapping never happened. That’s just media speculation.”
When discussing his preferences for a future partner, Kartik admitted that he would prefer to date and marry an actress. This preference comes from a need for mutual understanding regarding the professional demands of his career.
Kartik explains, “I would date an actress… Because she would understand my work. I’ve had breakups before, and often it was because of me being an actor. People from outside the industry don’t understand the pressures. So I feel that. An actress would understand me.”
Despite the public image of a movie star, Kartik’s take on his own behaviour in relationships is surprisingly relatable. He describes himself as someone who tends to over-invest in his partners. He reveals, “I give in too much. I’m a giver in a relationship. I’ve realised that this has been a problem at times.” When asked for further detail, he admits, “I have been taken for granted in relationships. Sometimes it goes the other way too.”
Despite these challenges, Kartik maintains a mature outlook on his past. He confirmed that his longest relationship lasted four years and that he remains on good terms with his former partners. When asked if he is friends with his exes, his answer was simple: “I am.”
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